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others know it too.\u00a0 Nobody is fooled.\u00a0<\/strong> YOU simply choose to ignore it \u2026 delay a critical decision \u2026 postpone a decisive action \u2026 procrastinate a very necessary yet uncomfortable meeting or discussion.\u00a0 As like most entrepreneurs, you simply continue on with your day-to-day business as if everything is fine and no monster exists. <em><strong>Guess what?\u00a0 It&#8217;s not fine.<!--more--> \u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Your MONSTER issue will not go away on its own and will always be there &#8230; only growing bigger, stronger and nastier as time goes by.\u00a0 <strong>Either decide to confront and slay your monster now or you will spend even more time, money and mental anguish down the road getting rid of the ever mounting monster mess, smell, damage, and lingering consequences.\u00a0<\/strong> A sad truth for entrepreneurs\u2026monsters NEVER go away on their own and they only get bigger, stronger, costlier, nastier, and more destructive with time.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, if you learn nothing else from this particular <a title=\"Business Coaching, Growth Coach\" href=\"http:\/\/www.TheGrowthCoach.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Growth Coach<\/a> blog, it should be this \u2026 <strong>it\u2019s not that you have a BIG problem (monster) that\u2019s your problem, it\u2019s that you are not confronting your problem on a timely and aggressive basis\u2026that\u2019s the real problem<\/strong> \u2026 denial, delay, delusions, and dodging.<\/p>\n<p><strong>This <a title=\"Talk with a Business Coach, Growth Coach\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thegrowthcoach.com\/Services\/TalkwithaCoach\/tabid\/389\/Default.aspx\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">business coaching<\/a> blog is dedicated to helping you remove the big unresolved issue, mess or dilemma from your business or life.<\/strong> As a business coach for nearly two decades, I have yet to meet a business owner, myself included, that does NOT play the occasional game of denial or delay when it comes to a BIG decision or messy matter.\u00a0 Since an entrepreneur&#8217;s entire week is usually consumed with making countless decisions, one right after another, it&#8217;s no wonder <strong>we all periodically dismiss or postpone a tougher or bigger decision.\u00a0 <em>But at what cost to us or the company?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>While you may be playing mental denial games with yourself, <strong>deep down this delayed decision or unresolved mess is eating away at you, constantly picking at your brain, causing you stress, stealing your energy, hurting your health, impacting your confidence, and continuing to cost you real money<\/strong>.\u00a0 As your virtual <a title=\"Become a Business Coach, Growth Coach Franchise\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thegrowthcoach.com\/Franchising\/tabid\/1175\/Default.aspx\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Growth Coach<\/a>, please bring this big decision, action or unresolved mess front and center so you can properly confront it and regain your freedom, peace of mind, health, confidence, and sanity &#8230; no longer wasting money, time, or mental energy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>To slay your monsters, you must face reality and truthfully acknowledge that they exist.\u00a0 Name them and claim them.\u00a0<\/strong> Please be brutally honest when you answer the following business coaching questions.\u00a0 <strong>These questions should help you wake up and clearly see the \u201cmonster matters\u201d standing right next to you<\/strong> and breathing down your neck.\u00a0 Here it goes:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>What is the big decision you have been avoiding and afraid to make?\u00a0 The big decision or company problem that is eating away at you morning, noon and night?\u00a0\u00a0 The decision or action that will cause real turmoil in your organization but clearly needs to be made?\u00a0 The family business dynamics that are dysfunctional and need to be addressed?<\/li>\n<li>What is the major &#8220;mess&#8221; in your personal or professional life that is unresolved, draining your energy, causing mental anguish, and needs to be cleaned up \u2026 and now?\u00a0\u00a0 What have you been praying on but not moving on?\u00a0 What are you naively wishing would resolve itself?<\/li>\n<li>What are some of the tough, cost-cutting measures you have swept under the rug for months?\u00a0 What critical marketing or sales strategies have you failed to pull the trigger on?\u00a0 What personnel problems, counseling sessions or terminations are you intentionally avoiding or denying?<\/li>\n<li>What important meeting with a customer, vendor, supplier, banker, CPA, attorney, financial adviser, investor, partner, or employee are you avoiding and failing to schedule?<\/li>\n<li>What family\/home issues or problems need to be discussed and addressed?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em><strong>Do you see your monsters now?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Of all your answers from above, <strong>what is your biggest monster (decision, problem, issue, action, dilemma, mess, confrontation, etc.) you need to confront now?<\/strong>\u00a0 The one monster causing you the most pain, headaches, stress, and money?\u00a0 Pick only one \u2026 the most pressing and important!\u00a0 Ignore the smaller monsters for now.\u00a0 <strong>Tackle the biggest, ugliest, messiest, and most frightening monster first \u2026 you will feel great, empowered, and relieved when you slay the big one first.\u00a0<\/strong> Armed with new confidence and momentum, you will easily confront and slay the smaller monsters.<\/p>\n<p><strong>To effectively slay the #1 Monster in your business or personal life, you need to confront it by giving yourself a definite and short-term deadline to do so.\u00a0<\/strong> Access your on-line or off-line calendar system or smart phone right now and <strong>schedule within the next 7 days a specific day and block of time for you to slay your monster<\/strong> \u2026 to make your decision, solve your problem, take your action, have your meeting, or clean up your mess.\u00a0 Notify others who need to be involved in this specific monster-slaying session. 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